Love This Way!
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Love This Way!
The Love This Way Podcast delivers honest, healing, and transformational conversations about modern relationships, emotional wellness, and self-worth. No gender wars or back and forth, just solid advice to help men and women to find and sustain healthy love. Because love is a journey and you need di...
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Most People Think They're Being Accountable... They Aren't!
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Everyone says they want accountability in a relationship.
But I think most people misunderstand what it actually is.
Your Partner Can't Read the Story You're Telling Yourself
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Your partner can't read the story you're telling yourself.
And that might be one of the biggest reasons relationships str...
The Invisible Things Fathers Carry: The Fathers Nobody Checks On
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Today isn't just Father's Day.
Today is for the fathers nobody checks on.
The ones who carry the weight of the worl...
Can You Love Me When It Hurts?
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Most people ask:
"Can you love me?"
But the deeper question is:
Can you love me when it hurts?
Can you...
The Best Parts of Love Are Actually Small
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We spend so much time looking for the big moments in love...
The proposal.
The wedding.
The grand gesture.
Complacency in Relationships: Why Do You Expect Them to Keep Choosing You If You’ve Stopped Showing Up?
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Complacency doesn’t usually destroy a relationship overnight.
It happens slowly.
The dates stop.
The complime...
There’s a Big Difference Between “They Don’t Care” and “They’re Trying”
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There’s a huge difference between the spouse who simply doesn’t care…
and the one who may get things wrong—but genuinely...
Nobody Talks About the Grief Inside Relationships
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Nobody talks about the grief that can exist inside a relationship that never ended.
Not all grief comes from breakups.
She Became a Mother… But Did Anyone Ask Who She Became?
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Motherhood changes women in ways people rarely talk about.
Not just physically.
Emotionally.
Mentally.
...
We’re Not Enemies...We’re Misunderstood
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It feels like men and women are at war right now…
Everyone has a side.
Everyone has a story.
Everyone has a r...
You Don’t Know Your Partner As Well As You Think You Do
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You think you know your partner…
But do you know who they are right now?
Or are you still relating to who they used...
Your Partner Is Experiencing a Completely Different Relationship Than You
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Two people can be in the same relationship…
and have completely different emotional experiences.
One feels loved.
Why Being Chosen Still Doesn’t Feel Like Enough
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Some people are in committed relationships… healthy relationships… loving relationships…
…and still feel unsure.
Th...
Do You Even Like Your Spouse?
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Being together doesn’t automatically mean someone feels loved.
Some people are in relationships with partners they don’t...
You Say You Want Honest Communication… Until You Hear the Truth
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Almost everyone says they want honest communication.
But what happens when the truth is uncomfortable?
When honesty...
Can Your Partner Affect Your Self-Esteem?
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People love to say:
“No one can affect your self-esteem because it’s called self-esteem.”
But relationships absolu...
To The Men Carrying the Weight of the World...
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This episode is for the men who are tired… but still standing.
The men carrying full loads.
The men solving problem...
Men Fear Failure. Women Fear Abandonment.
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Some men aren’t afraid of commitment… they’re afraid of failing the woman they love.
Some women aren’t “too emotional”…...
You’re Not Fighting…You’re Negotiating Power
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Most of your arguments aren’t about the dishes.
They’re about power.
Who gets the final say.
Who adjusts fir...
You’re Not Incompatible…You’re Emotionally Illiterate
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You don’t fight because you’re incompatible.
You fight because you don’t know what you’re feeling.
Hurt becomes ang...
The Version of Love You’re Chasing Never Existed
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The love you’re chasing may have never existed.
Not in real life.
Not in healthy relationships.
Not in sustai...
You Don’t Feel Chosen Because You’re Always Available
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You don’t feel chosen
because you’ve made yourself endlessly available.
Access is not intimacy.
Availability...
Why Black Love Is Under Attack — And What We Can Do About It
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Black love isn’t dying — it’s being distracted, divided, and misunderstood.
But we still have the power to protect it, re...
Who Benefits When You Doubt Yourself?
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You didn’t just start doubting yourself out of nowhere.
Someone benefited from your confusion.
Someone felt safer...
Who Are You — and Who Were You Before Someone Told You Who to Be?
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Who were you before someone told you to tone it down?
Before you were labeled extra.
Before you learned to shrink...
You Ask for Real Love, Then Reject It When You See It!
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When did love stop being celebrated
and start being investigated?
Somewhere between heartbreak and survival,
...
You Loved Them So Much You Forgot to Love You
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You gave them everything.
Your time. Your energy. Your peace.
You loved them harder than you ever loved yourself...
2026 The Year You Finally Choose You (Because the Version of You That Settles Can’t Come With You)
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This year, I’m not chasing love that costs me myself.
I’m not begging to be chosen in rooms I outgrew.
I’m not se...
Home for the Holidays—But Not at Peace: The Loneliness No One Talks About
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You can be home for Christmas and still not be at peace.
Because peace isn’t about proximity — it’s about emotional safe...
When You Love Them the Most, They Love You the Least
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When you love them the most…
they might already be too tired to feel it.
Because you can’t break someone’s heart a...
You Keep Calling It Love, But It’s Just Emotional Cannibalism
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You keep calling it love,but it only feels real when someone’s bleeding for it.
You say you “love hard,”but maybe you jus...
The Death of Accountability: Why Everyone Thinks They’re the Healed One
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Everybody wants to look healed—
but nobody wants to be accountable.
Healing isn’t posting your bounda...
The Cost of Being the Other Woman: What It Really Takes to Break a Covenant
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She said, “I don’t owe that woman anything.”
But you do owe yourself integrity — and God accountability.
You can’t...
The Case for Love: Why It’s Still the Most Important Thing We’ll Ever Have
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Because love is what gives meaning to everything else. It’s what heals, redeems, and holds us together when nothing else can. T...
You Can’t Pray for Partnership While Living Like You’re the Only One Who Matters
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You keep praying for partnership while living like you’re the only one who matters.
Love isn’t a stage for your comfort —...
When You Think You Can’t Do Better, They’ll Make Sure You Don’t!
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The moment someone realizes you’ll stay no matter what,
they stop valuing what they once had to earn.
You think you...
You Want Loyalty From People Who Don’t Even Have Values
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You’re not asking for too much.
You’re just asking the wrong people.
Loyalty isn’t hard for people who live by valu...
Stop Chasing Happiness—Start Choosing Peace
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Everybody’s chasing happiness…
But happiness is fleeting. Circumstantial. Temporary.
And the truth is—most people a...
It’s not who you attract — it’s who you entertain!
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If you're the whole package, you're going to attract a little bit of everyone. The question is:
Why do you keep keeping t...
You’re Not Hard to Love—You’re Just Afraid to Be Seen, and Held Accountable
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You’re not hard to love. You’ve just never felt safe enough to be held, seen, and called higher.
This episode is going t...