SOFT x SAVAGE
Channel Details
SOFT x SAVAGE
You didn't become a mother to become invisible. Soft x Savage is the podcast for ambitious moms building wealth, identity, and a hot life — without apology. Hosted by messaging expert and solo mom Laura Patricia Martin, this is the Hot Mom. Hot Business. movement in podcast form. We talk high tick...
Recent Episodes
229 episodes
Why I Was Putting on a Show, The Veil That Lifts After Birth & What It Actually Feels Like to Build from Expression Not Performance
After I gave birth, something shifted.
Not just in my life. In the way I saw everything I had been doing online.
The Visibility Trap, Why Most Creators Never Get Paid & The 3 Bridges That Actually Make You Money as a Mom
I don't want you to just be visible. I want you to be visible AND paid.
Because a woman who shows up every day, creates content, b...
Why Most Working Moms Can't Make It to the Second Shift, Nervous System Overload & Why You're Not Lazy
I get asked this all the time. How do you actually make it to the second shift? How do you work at night and not just collapse?
An...
Why Your Personal Brand Isn't Working, How AI Changed My Content Strategy & What Actually Builds Authority as a Mom
I'm going to say something uncomfortable.
The reason your personal brand isn't working probably has nothing to do with your conten...
Coaching to Luxury Jewelry, Trusting Your Inner Nudges & The Art of the Pivot w/ Stefanie Elsperman
You know that feeling when something inside you is nudging you toward something new — and you keep ignoring it because it doesn't make sense yet?
Jessi Jean's $1.2M Launch, The Joy Over Strategy Shift & Why I'm Done Building for the Goal
I've been in Jessi Jean's challenge this week.
And honestly? I didn't join because of the $1.2 million launch. I joined because I...
Starting Over at 33, Building Hot Girl Wealth as a Mom & Why Blowing Up Your Life Is a Power Move
Okay so I need to talk about something.
I moved. New town. New everything. And I'm sitting with this feeling that I think a lot of...
Why My Content Got Boring, Breaking My Own Rules & How to Find Your Heartbeat Again
I'm going to say something that took me a while to admit.
My content got boring.
Not bad. Not wrong. Just... s...
Ep. 221: More Isn't It: Why Volume Is Not the Answer, The Influential Code & What Actually Converts After Motherhood Changes You
MATRIARCH MASTERMIND IS OPEN
You became a mother and your standard changed.
The content you were willing to po...
Ep. 220: Motherhood as a Filter, Why You're Not Behind & The Real Hot Mom Business Era
You thought it would slow you down.
You thought you'd lose momentum. Lose yourself. Lose the edge.
Nobody told...
Ep. 219: Comparing to Your Old Capacity, Naive Conviction & Why You Can't Go Back to Her
You remember who you were before.
Before the baby. Before the shift. Before the season that asked more than you had.
...
Ep 218: Why You're Flattening Your Power, Breaking the Good Girl Voice & The Influential Code Explained
THE MATRIARCH IS OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT - DM to Apply
You don't have a strategy problem.
You have a self-editing problem.
...
Ep 217: 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before Scaling a Business and Having a Baby
THE MATRIARCH IS OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT: Apply by DMing me
Nobody prepares you for what actually happens.
Not to...
Ep. 216: the justin bieber coachella moment nobody is talking about — and what it means if your content feels "too much"
THE MATRIARCH IS OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT
you're performing professionalism that isn't even yours. and it's killing your authority.
Ep 214: you can just decide to turn your energy on and that be that
THE MATRIARCH MASTERMIND IS OPEN-- Message me to apply
At any given moment — any moment — you can just decide you're so back.
Ep. 214: Your "It Factor", Manifesting in a Bad Mood & Why Certainty is the Real Strategy w/ Mikayla Jai
You don't have to be in a good mood to manifest.
You don't have to have it all figured out. You don't have to wait until the traum...
Ep. 213: 5 unconventional strategies that are quietly making me more money (& way happier)
BOLDER BRANDING ACADEMY IS OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT
Nobody talks about these ones.
Not because they don't work — but because they...
Ep. 212: stop faking it, it's not working
BOLDER BRANDING ACADEMY IS OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT
You've been doing everything right.Showing up. Posting. Putting yourself out there.
And it...
Ep. 211: Healing Trauma Bonds, Queen Energy & Why You Keep Attracting the Same Person w/ Andrea Crowder
What if the pressure you've been living under was never yours to carry?
We've been taught that growth has to be hard. That healing...
Ep. 210: You Can't Build a Movement While Playing Small in Private
UNRELATABLY RELATABLE IS OPEN
You talk about standards. You preach self-trust. You tell your audience to go all in.
<...
Ep. 209: What's The Point?! Getting Out of a Funk Without Toxic Positivity
Have you ever found yourself flat? Not depressed. Not ungrateful. Just… disconnected from the life you're building and completely unable to explain it...
Ep. 208: Stop Trying to Be Relatable, Why Being Digestible Is Killing Your Influence
UNRELATABLY RELATABLE IS OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT
You’re not too much.
You’re just surrounded by people who benefit from you bein...
Ep. 207: Why People Ignore You (Even When You’re Doing Everything Right)
UNRELATABLY RELATABLE IS OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT
You’re doing the work.
You’re visible.
And yet… you’re still being overlooked where it...
Ep. 206:
Being seen isn’t neutral.
It’s activating.
Every time you post, speak up, or step into leadership — do you feel yourself softening, over-e...
Ep: 205: Want More Visibility? Master Your Relationships First
Visibility isn’t just about posting more or being louder.
It’s about who you let into your world, who you spend your energy on, and who you allo...
Ep. 204: You Don’t Need More Visibility... You Need To Better Mental Health
Everyone wants to be seen.
More eyes. More attention. More validation.
In business, in relationships, in rooms they feel invisible in.
Ep. 203: Time Management & Boundaries That Actually Get You Results
A no-fluff breakdown of why you’re busy but not moving forward — and what to do about it.
If you feel behind, exhausted, or like y...
Ep. 202: In & Outs for 2026 to Get Hotter and Richer
2026 is my all-in year. No excuses. No hiding. No half-measures. I’m taking full ownership of my growth, mindset, and personal brand, and sharing exac...
Ep. 201: 2025 Wrapped: The Most Defining Podcast Moments
This is the final episode of the year.
No new teaching new framework.
Just the moments that landed hardest.
This episode is a compil...
Ep. 200: How to Stay Mentally in the Game When You’re Not Seeing Results
There’s a moment every driven woman faces where effort and evidence stop matching.
You’re doing the work.
You’re staying con...
EP. 199: UNPLUGGED: Motherhood, Wedding Planning, Scaling Companies, And Trying to Keep It All Together With Stefanie Elsperman
There’s a season of life that doesn’t fit neatly into a caption.
You’re building a business.
You’re raising a...
Ep. 198: Becoming Her Again Series: 10 Things I’m Doing to Become *Her* Before 2025 (And How You Can Too)
This episode is the disruption of the year.
There’s a moment every woman hits where she realizes she’s not waiting for January, mo...
Ep. 197: Becoming Her Again Series: Routines That Make You Feel Hot, Whole & In Command Again
So many women whisper the same thing:
“I don’t feel like myself anymore.”
Especially after motherhood.
<...
Ep. 196: Becoming Her Again Series: The 4 Identity Shifts *That* Makes You That Woman Again
There is a revival happening among women right now.
A return.
A remembering.
A rising of t...
Ep. 195: Becoming Her Again Series: The Moment I Realized I Lost Myself… And What It Took to Come Back
Every woman has a moment where she quietly admits…
“I don’t know who I am right now.”
For me, it wasn’t dramat...
Ep. 194: Why “10x” Energy Is Keeping You Broke — Get Rich as F*ck by Going Deeper, Not Harder With Megan Harfield
Everyone keeps talking about “10x energy.”
More action. More output. More expansion
.
But what if the real wealth — th...
Ep. 193: Building a Legacy Through Personal Responsibility
Everyone keeps asking, “How has motherhood changed your marriage?” The truth is, motherhood did not just make me a mom. It refined me as a wife.
...
Ep. 192: Is Modern Femininity Making Motherhood and Marriage Harder Than It Needs to Be? With Monica Yates
In this bold and unfiltered episode, Laura Patricia Martin sits down with Monica Yates — coach, speaker, and author of Becoming Her — to unpack the mo...
Ep. 191: Spilling the Tea on My Backend Systems (That Everyone Pretends Don’t Exist)
Everyone keeps asking, “How do you do it all and still make money?”
Here’s the truth: I don’t believe in balance. I believe in sys...
Ep. 190: The Unhinged Things I Did to Get My Dream Life, a Multi-Six-Figure Business, and a Baby
Everyone loves to talk about strategy, structure, and timelines…
But no one talks about the unhinged decisions—the ones that make...